When something between you doesn't feel settled.
This space is for misunderstandings, moments where you missed each other, or a smaller hurt — when you both freely want to talk, and feel safe with each other.
It isn't for coercion, violence, serious consent violations, feeling afraid of the other person, or when one of you is being pressured to repair.
Repair is not the same as forgiveness, and you don't have to finish this conversation together.